ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want

FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it

FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk

FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice

TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone